Let's face it. Intimacy can be tough.
I have dedicated my life to teaching about healthy relating, and I assure you, every day I am still humbled by how hard it is to stay connected!
As an Orgasmic Intimacy Coach, this is what I have learned.
Intimacy is not about mastery - it's about practice. And that's what I help you do. When you sign up for my services, you and I work as a team to practice and improve your ability to connect.
In love. In sexuality. In business. In creativity. In all areas of your life.
If you are someone who has felt stuck in your ability to express yourself, to find your words to translate on the outside what you feel on the inside and to take the risk to say what you really feel, then you are in the right place.
If you have ever felt like the "real you" is trapped behind shame, doubt, judgments or an old script about how you "should behave", but that someone more vibrant, more raw, more honest and more powerful, is right there just behind those blocks, then you are in the right place.
If you are one of those people who simply feels so much, all the way through, but has always felt like it wasn't safe to express or trust or even admit how much you felt, then you are definitely in the right place.
If you have struggled with asking for what you want in relationship, and have told yourself, I can't possibly have it just how I want it, but yet that yearning persists, then you are in the right place.
I offer my clients a taste of something different. Permission from the inside to trust how you feel, to find the language to express that to the world and to navigate building just the right connection to support the full you. A journey that begins with a vital, yet simple question: what do you want?
In a one hour, complimentary session called an "Exploratory", you and I will explore your answer to that question. We will ask, what would it look like if you had your life just how you wanted it, in every area? And, what is in the way of you having it? These answers will become the compass for our work.
During your Exploratory, I will let you know how I would support you to craft the life of your desire. I will give you examples of tools I would teach you and suggest how long we might work together to achieve or resolve your issues. At the end of that session, you can decide whether or not you want to work with me. Sound good?
Think of the Exploratory like a chance to meet one another and for you to get a feel for how I work before you make up your mind to dive in!
My clients receive the benefit of my desire-based coaching, combined with my years of experience as a psychotherapist working with veterans and medical patients. This means that if you decide to work with me, we can work on the whole you. Body and mind. Past and present. Sex and self. And all the ways those are related.
Interested in learning more?
If so, contact me to schedule your free Exploratory to find out if my services are right for you!
"I’ve done a lot of work throughout the years - spiritual, emotional, mental, intimacy. I’ve traveled to Omega, Esalen, Kripalu, overseas and all the fancy retreats one could image to find teachers that are diving into the depths of spirit and psychology in integral and sophisticated ways. Well, now I have that emerging right here in Dallas and it is about time! Dr. Tartaro is an excellent facilitator and skillful coach in helping one find their truth and learn to connect with it in voice and embody what is longing to be expressed and experienced. It’s a gift to the community here and I highly recommend taking courses with her or engaging with her in coaching or other services.”
I specialize in teaching a simple, 15 minute partnered sexuality practiced called Conscious Orgasm, or CO for short. In CO, a partner strokes the upper left hand quadrant of a woman’s clitoris, very lightly. There is no goal, except to feel the sensation in both partners’ bodies.
We all want relationships that thrive. The ones where you are equal parts friend, partner and lover, and can stay connected through the ups and down. I believe that you can have it. That we all can.
Contact Improvisation is a playful movement practice in which two or more people share a moving point of connection while moving through space. It’s a powerful pathway for getting out of your head and practicing the principles of trust and creativity through your body.
Ever wanted to feel the freedom to say just exactly what you always felt? Feel like you are always hiding behind the “polite thing” or the “safe guy or girl strategy?” Most people do. You are not alone. What if you had the tools to unlock the thoughts that live in your head and express yourself freely to others?