I first heard of Conscious Orgasm on Jessica’s website. It seemed profound and out of reach for me as I had been dealing with a plethora of intimacy issues stemming from past sexual trauma. My partner and I decided to do a live training after doing couples coaching with Jessica. Opening myself up in a way that usually accompanied pain and shame was challenging, but the safe container that Jessica created allowed me to experience the benefits from CO right away. I have a completely new understanding of what orgasm truly is, and how healing it can be. Jessica’s knowledge and guidance during that first session was so comforting and I can’t think of a better person to teach my partner and I this powerful meditation practice.
Since I have been working with Jessica I feel like I finally have a glimpse of what’s possible with intimacy and connection with others especially men. I feel that I am vibrating on a higher frequency and the universe is synchronizing with my energy which is bringing the exact right person in my life at the perfect time. It’s truly mind blowing….I want everyone in my life to feel this radiance in my soul. I feel more feminine than I have in years and I am truly glowing from the inside….I am full, clear and manifesting my dreams.
As a lesbian, I would recommend Conscious Orgasm for lesbians. And particularly lesbians in long term relationships. Most couples get stuck but I think lesbian couples have unique issues. COing has brought us back to connection. For us, it’s allowing us to have some conversations that were really hard. It hasn’t dramatically shifted our sexual practice yet. That’s something we hope for and desire. It’s not a magic bullet. But it’s allowed us a different way to come to the table with honesty and vulnerability that we haven’t had before.