It may be timeless, but the traditional advice, “Don’t let the sun go down on your anger” may not fit the modern relationship.
0:57 I am willing to contradict the Bible to find what works for the modern relationship
2:20 Late at night, the gargoyles come out.
2:48 When the sun rises, I have more access to my forgiveness.
3:05 Sleep is a winning factor when it comes to love.
4:42 When did you stop dancing? Singing? Being enchanted by stories? Finding comfort in the sweet territory of silence?
5:20 During sleep, we are doing important emotional metabolizing.
6:05 My husband’s insight (he can’t sleep when he’s angry)
6:51 The compromise (use this script)
7:43 The quality of our relationships with others will flow from the quality of our relationship with ourselves.
7:55 This week’s practice
Resources: Read about cultural anthropologist Angeles Arrien and her inspiring publications here: http://www.angelesarrien.com/
Dr. Jessica Tartaro
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