If we aren’t careful, we can treat kissing like a stop along the way to sex. But good kissing can be its own destination and invites us to arrive, over and again, through our lips. In this episode, I tell you how.
2:13 I always considered myself a good kisser – but I was wrong.
1:50 Kissing is not a technical sport
2:50 We were taught that sex was a mission to accomplish.
3:47 Exhaustion, resentment and sexual aversion can ensue.
4:18 I describe an alternative way to approach sex.
5:51 A brief test of your lips’ nerve endings
7:07 Kissing conjures yearning – how can we stay there?
7:44 Follow the evolution in your sex, don’t lead it.
8:02 The secret to the art of good kissing
8:43 How we can touch all of the other through our lips
8:51 This week’s homework (for people who have kissing partners and also those who don’t too).
Resources: The song Marrow by Ani DiFranco
Podcast produced by Sal DeRosalia
Music composed and performed by Aimee Mia Kelley