Would you like to have more intimacy across your relationships?

Would you like to have more intimacy across your relationships?

Let’s face it. Intimacy can be tough.

I have dedicated my life to teaching about healthy relating, and every day I am humbled by the courage it takes to connect in a real way with others!

What I have learned is that intimacy is not about mastery – it’s about practice. And that’s what I help you do.

When you sign up for my coaching, you and I work as a team to practice and improve your ability to connect.

In love. In sexuality. In community. In creativity. In all areas of your life.

If you are someone who has felt stuck in your ability to express yourself, to find your words to translate on the outside what you feel on the inside and to take the risk to say what you really feel, then you are in the right place.

If you have ever felt like the “real you” is trapped behind shame, doubt, or judgments, but that this vibrant, raw, honest and powerful version of you is right there just behind those blocks, then you are in the right place.

If you are one of those people who simply feels so much, all the way through, but has always felt like it wasn’t safe to trust or even admit how much you feel, then you are in the right place.

If you have struggled with asking for what you want in relationship, and have told yourself, I can’t possibly let myself have it, but yet that yearning persists, then you are in the right place.

I offer my clients a taste of something different.

Permission from the inside to trust how you feel, to find the language to express that to the world and to navigate building connection to support the full you. A journey that begins with a vital, yet simple question: what do you want?

In a one hour, complimentary consultation called an “Exploratory”, we will explore your answer to that question. We will ask, what would it look like if you had your life how you wanted it? And, what is in the way of you having it? These answers will become the compass for our work.

My clients receive the benefit of my desire-based coaching, my years of experience as a psychotherapist and my community leadership expertise. I am also poly-friendly, queer welcoming, and transgender friendly.

If you decide to work with me, we can work on the whole you. Body and mind. Past and present. Self and community. And all the ways those are related.

Interested in learning more?

Contact me to schedule your free Exploratory today.

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Jessica shined a light on parts of me so hidden, I forgot they were there. She drew out the inner leader that was itching to emerge, but didn’t have the skills or confidence. She’s taught me the ecstatic feeling of integration. Her vision of us all as being leaders healing and healing leaders in our genuine and authentic humanness has inspired me to no end. I’m ever grateful for this renewal of myself, and feel more fulfilled than ever because of it. Namaste. The leader in me honors the leader in you, Jessica.

– Raquel Yardeni
Yoga Instructor, Social Worker & Authenticity Educator

Without a doubt, this is revolutionary work. Conscious, body-centered living is antithetical to the status quo… and practicing ways (and practicing and practicing) to get really fluid at it is KEY to the kind of leadership that helps this world “turn it all around.” Thank you Jessica.

~Katherine Macomber Millman, Founder, Entering the Healing Temple

Thank you for everything that you are building in Port Townsend. When I think of you, I’m reminded of those reality shows where a guy (almost always a guy) rappels out of a helicopter with only a ballpoint pen and within a few days he’s built a Gilligan’s Island style thatched hut and barbecued a wild animal. I feel like you have those wilderness survival skills at an emotional level. That you can land anywhere and create shared meaning, community and home.

– Ari, Solutions Architect Manager

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