“We Too” is a monthly video interview with one committed couple to reveal both your strengths as well as what it really looks like when you struggle. Interested in being interviewed? Fill out this application to be considered!
The purpose of this monthly interview is to share how you as a couple navigate the ups and downs of your intimacy, including your strengths as well as ways you manage and resolve conflict. My hope is that the more we have “out loud” conversations about real and lasting relationships, the less couples will feel alone, the more we can all grow, heal and evolve through our relating.
YOU are a part of making that possible! Apply HERE to get involved.
How this project began:
In one of our recent couples coaching sessions, one of my clients shared with me in heartfelt frustration, “Please help us remember that we aren’t the only ones struggling with our relationship!”
And I was like, OH FOR SURE YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY ONES! Of course, I assured her that this was true.
But without more direct experience of other couples’ real life journeys, I didn’t expect her to fully believe me – how could she – since most couples never air the truth about their relationships to each other!
In fact, the privacy that is baked into the modern concept of intimate relationship is one of the primary reasons that relationships result in so much struggle and stress.
You read that right.
Keeping your dirty laundry behind closed doors, so to speak, puts couples at greater risk for burnout and breakdown. The isolation kills us as a couples. Because no one talks about the roller coaster of both small and big tensions and strains that come with long term relationship, it can be so easy to imagine that the challenges we face in our adult intimacy are unique to us. And if we believe we are the only ones struggling, we are more vulnerable to feeling ashamed and closing down in precisely the areas where we need support.
As an intimacy coach, I get to hear all of your very real stories of struggle as well as success. And what I know from witnessing you session after session and year after year is that across couples, we are wrestling with some of the very same challenges as each other. If only you knew this – if only couples could share more transparently and vulnerably – YOU could be your greatest source of resilience and inspiration.
But YOU don’t hear from one another!
I want to remedy this. This is how “We Too Monthly Couples Spotlight” was born.
Starting in January of 2026, I will be interviewing one couple each month about the highs and lows of your love. I will ask you two main questions for a 10-minute interview and then invite a longer conversation to dive deeper into your relationship. I will post each of the two videos on my YouTube channel as well as email to subscribers each month!
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Are you in a couple and would you like to be spotlighted this year? As you can probably guess, these interviews will feel like a free coaching session with me, my gift to you for participating in this project.
Complete this application to be considered!
Together, let us neutralize the shame that can come from the isolation around couples and make sure more of us know we are on a shared journey of love. We can grow, learn and thrive together!
Photo of my spouse and me from our 2025 sixth anniversary dinner.
